Ricky Stanicky, 2024 - ★★

Cena is trying so hard it‘s actually heartbreaking.

The Teachers’ Lounge, 2023 - ★★★

This being a German movie, the worst things that happen stem from people not being punctual.

The Teachers’ Lounge, 2023 - ★★★

Watched on Sunday March 10, 2024.

This being a German movie, the worst things that happen stem from people not being punctual.

Randy Writes a Novel, 2019 - ★★★★★

Watched on Saturday March 9, 2024.

I don’t know if the platform created a moment unto itself, or if it was the last gasp of a certain kind of internet writing. All I know is that as TinyLetter sunsets, something dies with it.

Nice little article on the death of TinyLetter.

Drive-Away Dolls, 2024 - ★★★★★ (contains spoilers)

This review may contain spoilers.

It's interesting that Matt Damon, the most milquetoast actor in the world, is also canonically the funniest guy possible to get for a surprise bit part.

Anyway, this rules. A flavor of Coen I've been missing, kind of bringing to mind Raising Arizona in its zaniness, though sloppier and more self-indulgent, in a good, fun way. I whole-heartedly support Ethan Coen spending all the good-will he has built up over his career on getting away with some Very Silly Scene Transitions.

Qualley is fun, but more importantly, Geraldine Viswanathan, who low-key has been one of the most promising comic actresses for a while now, finally gets the starring role in a *real* movie she deserves (gonna take this opportunity to claim her character as positive autistic representation, too). Also, this is the second movie she's made where a disembodied penis is the McGuffin, I have to respect such a carefully curated career.

Dieses grauenhafte Thank you for traveling Buch hat so viel Schaden angerichtet, jetzt wenn irgendwas bei der Bahn schiefläuft nervt nicht nur das sondern man muss zusätzlich auch den Second-Hand-Schmunzelhumor der anderen Fahrgäste ertragen.

Finished: Molly by Blake Butler 📚

This garnered some controversy and honestly, I sympathize with some of the ethical concerns (as does the author, it seems). But that doesn‘t change that this is a deeply moving, gorgeously written book.

Randy Feltface: Feltopia, 2024 - ★★★★

Watched on Friday March 1, 2024.

Margaret, 2011 - ★★★★★

Great bit to cast Matthew Broderick in this.

The Zone of Interest, 2023

Watched on Thursday February 22, 2024.

Frankie and Johnny, 1991 - ★★★

Watched on Wednesday February 21, 2024.

Finished: O Brother by John Niven 📚

As much as I have reservations about this genre (“memoir about loved one who died by suicide and so can’t speak for themselves”), this was a great, if absolutely devastating read.

The Whale, 2022 - ★★

Watched on Thursday January 11, 2024.

This is what it looks like when we’re joyful: On Fern Brady’s Taskmaster run, improv & autistic representation

This is translated from a German essay I originally published in 2022.

After a session of my first improv class, my teacher took me aside. We had talked about stage fright in class and I had mentioned that, as an autistic person, I find everyday interactions more challenging than performing in front of an audience. After the session, he told me that the autistic tendency to say »the quiet part out loud« was a valuable quality in improv: an effective way to bring scenes to a satisfying conclusion, and something the audience loved.

I’ve thought about this advice a lot since, not only when I’ve been performing myself, but also when watching comedy I enjoy. I was particularly reminded of it during the 14th season of Taskmaster. Taskmaster, for those who don’t know it, is a British panel/game show in which a group of comedians compete against each other in absurd tasks devised by comedian Alex Horne. »Conceal this pineapple on your person«, »Make this coconut look like a businessman« — that kind of thing. The tasks are pre-recorded and then played in studio shows to an audience and »taskmaster« Greg Davies, who has the final say on the scores.

Season 14 was a special one for me because Scottish comedian Fern Brady was the first openly autistic contestant to take part. I had never heard of Brady before the season, but when I googled the season’s contestants and read the title of her current program — »Autistic Bikini Queen« — it was immediate cause for anticipation: Taskmaster tasks are designed to reward — if not in points, then in entertainment value — unusual, out-of-the-box ways of thinking, and what is autism if not an unusual, out-of-the-box way of thinking?

Brady, along with the also very entertaining John Kearns, ended up in last place for the season. But she was a crowd favorite, and while it may not have been apparent to the average viewer — the word autistic” was never said — it was obvious to those who knew what to look for that Brady’s autistic perspective influenced how she approached the tasks, and how she defended her performances in the studio to Davies. As Brady herself wrote in a recent Instagram post:

It’s in the ridiculous way I solved my final task, in my openly stimming on camera while I concentrated on my next task, in my screaming at the birds to shut up because I hear all noises at the same volume, in my tendency to anthropomorphize every inanimate object on set.

Brady writes that she read the Taskmaster subreddit beforehand and realized how many autistic people watch the show, and then made a decision about how she wanted to approach the show:

I realized that by being my unmasked self while having fun I’d reach them way better than by doing some serious on-the-nose documentary about how shit my life had been when I was undiagnosed[.]

»Autistic representation« in media and pop culture is still mostly a representation of autistic suffering. Attempts at »positive« representation of autistic people often fall into the old narrative pattern of characters who overcome their autism, who »function« despite their autism. Whether in fiction or non-fiction, the narrative that a »successful« life for autistic people means standing out as autistic as little as possible is everywhere. Even in the few representations that assign value to an autistic perspective — say, Abed in Community — that value often lies in speaking up specifically about uncomfortable things, saying what needs to be said, even if it’s painful for the listener. And that’s all well and good, but what we too rarely see is that an autistic view of the world can be a source of joy, for autistic people themselves and those with whom we share our perspective.

That’s what makes Brady’s Taskmaster participation so special. Her approach is naturally rewarded in Taskmaster, she takes obvious joy in the show and spreads joy with her recognizably autistic perspective and behavior. Her enthusiasm for the show and the tasks was palpable from her first interview with Alex Horne, and she regularly gets Horne to break his deadpan persona simply by, for example, describing an everyday item, or explaining her peculiar but entirely coherent logic in solving a task, or, yes, saying »the quiet part out loud«, as when, when Davies goes to try an Asian soup she’s brought, she blurts out, »You seem like you just eat roasts« . Brady produces such quotable phrases with no discernible effort and says them as if they are self-evident, because to her, they probably are: they are the sort of thoughts that an autistic view of the world produces, but that most of us learn not to say out loud. Brady further writes in her Instagram post:

I knew a big part of doing well on Taskmaster was being yourself but if you’re autistic you’re so frequently punished for being yourself that it was a scary move.

Autistic people have a reputation for being »humorless« and this is usually attributed to our tendency to take things literally and therefore misunderstand or overhear rhetorical subtleties such as irony and sarcasm. And like many clichés, there is some truth to this, but I think another reason for our apparent lack of humor is that quite a few of us associate laughter and wit with trauma. In everyday life, especially in childhood and adolescence, people are more likely to laugh at us and make jokes about us than they are to find our own observations and thoughts funny. What we think is an interesting observation or simply an obvious truth, on the other hand, is punished for being »inappropriate«.

Learning and performing improv comedy has become a central part of my life over the last couple of years, and it’s honestly disorienting — in a good way, for the most part — how much I’ve had to recalibrate what’s desirable and what’s not. What the audience findsfunniest, what I get the most praise for, is usually something that just seemed like the most obvious, natural reaction for me — it’s not sentences I laboriously, actively think up, but the most obvious thoughts, just my first, authentic reaction that, for once, I actually allow myself to say out loud. This is much more difficult than it sounds: I’ve learned over nearly three decades to suppress or hide these instinctive reactions. »Saying the quiet part out loud« is rarely welcome in everyday communication with neurotypical people. Being in an environment where these very instincts that I have internalized as »wrong« are rewarded, where they are cause for joy, forces me to question fundamental assumptions about myself. It takes effort to allow that to happen, and I’m far from being able to do it reliably on stage.

Watching Brady in Taskmaster has shown me a horizon to work towards. I want to allow myself, if not in everyday life, then at least on stage, to reliably respond as authentically and unfiltered as Brady did in the show. And, something I’m even further away from: I also want to embrace the weaknesses that come with my autism, such as my rather below average body coordination, as enthusiastically as Brady did — like in a task where she has to perform synchronized choreography with a recording of herself and fails absolutely gloriously. I’m not there yet, and I might never be, but it feels good to be able to point to a representation of autistic joy and humor on screen and say: I want to be myself just as much, as scary as that is.

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What bothered me most about the Time article is that some members of the media seem to be openly advocating for their own obsolescence as journalists. It’s very strange to publish a puff piece so puffy that you admit at the end that Taylor Swift could have just as well written it herself. It amounts to a form of journalistic surrender in the face of a powerful cultural institution that is (at best) unseemly and (at worst) humiliating.

Another good piece on Taylor Swift and how we all should aspire to be more normal about her.

Keine Ahnung aber vielleicht braucht nicht absolut jede App eine “Wrapped”-Funktion?

Killers of the Flower Moon, 2023 - ★★★½

Watched on Sunday December 31, 2023.

Finished: Station Eternity by Mur Lafferty 📚

Gets a bit too lost in flashbacks and perspective changes for a while imo, but still overall a very funny read. Has the kind of casual-but-super-intriguing sci-fi world building you get in Douglas Adams or the best Doctor Who.

Randy Feltface: Purple Privilege, 2021 - ★★★★★

Watched on Friday December 29, 2023.